This is such a powerful confirmation, Sandy.
I spoke this out to someone last night. When I called them, they were all stressed out and as they continued to speak about how much was going on in the world, the Lord gave me a word for them to STAY IN THEIR LANE.
When we take on too much or things the Lord hasn't given us the Grace to do, we not only step out into disobedience, but we get, as you have said, Sandy, frustrated, self condemned and rejected, accused and insecure.
After I said this, they took a sigh of relief and said that was good advice. They sounded much more at peace as well.